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Today I want to chat a bit about something that has been driving me crazy as of late: self-centeredness.

There are so many things going on in the world at large and the world in your personal sphere of influence, maybe it's time to learn about it. Quit thinking all of your "woe is me" thoughts, stop thinking of what you want to say when the person who is talking finishes their thought, and PLEASE stop thinking that just because you are not the topic at hand, that the topic doesn't matter.

Now, does this mean that I don't care if you have a problem? Of course not! I care. Talk it out.
Does this mean that I think it's fair of you to only talk about yourself and all of your "issues"? NO.

Ask someone a question about themselves and then while they're answering, LISTEN. Do NOT start thinking of how you can relate what they are saying to yourself or of anything really other than focusing on what's being said. If you really don't give a flying flip what the person is saying to you, then don't ask. That's your thing, but it's rude to expect others to become your personal sounding board when you don't lend an ear or even ask anything about their life.

So, I am sorry for the rant that this has become. But in closing I would like to say one thing:

People matter. By talking only of yourself and your interests, that small fact is not apparent to the listener. So, make sure they know you care, and let them talk and teach yourself to listen. I am sure you will be happy you did.

No music today, sorry.

Entspannt.

Hello all!

I trust this entry finds you all relaxed and well. I know that is how I am feeling this summer- relaxed. Not even bored like other summers where I spend a lot of time sitting around. I am merely relaxed. I have been spending this month of July in Kirksville working at the housing office at school and really just chilling with my roommates and my friends. I can't say that all the things leading to this decision to come here were great blessings, but I can say that being away has some perks.
So far, this summer, I spent about a month in Europe, had soooo much fun at home with my mom and sister, and now am leisurely making money and sleeping in. So, this blog entry is devoted to happiness and relaxation. It's time to slough off those mid-July boredom blues and find something fun to do!
You could...

See a play
Take an art class
Get a tan
Start dancing in your underwear every morning
go on a bar crawl
Go to a museum
Wander around a park
Eat ice cream
Make a new friend

The possibilities are endless! So, why not enjoy your freedom in the summertime and find something new to do instead of sitting on your couch. I am sure you won't regret it.

In the way of my blog, here is some music for you. I have been enjoying country this summer, so here are two country songs. These two are, ironically married to one another!

ENjoy! Love you all.